Fear and Desire

Do you fear anything or desire something?
Read here to know what fear and desire can do to you!
‘Fear’ and ‘Desire’ are two Contrasting characters that has the potential to ruin one’s life. If you cannot control either of them, you will end up messed with your life.
The fear of losing something and the desire to acquire something always stays inside us. Letting it stay is not a problem, but letting it rule is a peril.

What is fear?
Fear is an emotion caused by the perception of a threat.
When you find that, this perceived emotion is causing the actual threat, you’ll find where you’re trapped. If you are one among the trapped victims, act now to save yourself from the Fear’s net!
I’m not asking anyone to stay fearless, but I’m asking you to have a control over your fears.
When you have the fear of failure, you will not taste the delicacy of success.
When you fear small threats, you’ll lose big goals.
Fear when you’re about to jump and not when you are climbing.
Fear when you’re about to leave and not when you are approaching.
It is like a salt in a dish. It is needed, but should be within the need.
Keep ‘Fear’ within its limits.
The next evil is DESIRE!
Desire is a strong wish to own/have something.
Like fear, desire can also ruin your life when you have no control over it.
You can desire for something that you ‘need’, but not necessarily for something you ‘want’.
There is difference between ‘need’ and ‘want’.
When you need something, “It is essential for your survival”.
When you want something, “You are adding accessories to your need”.
Of course, everyone loves to have accessories, but what I am emphasizing is, have a control over what you ‘Want’.
When your ‘desire’ turns into a ‘hunger’ for something, that is not a ‘need’, you are falling into a trap.
Desire to ‘Win’ something and not to ‘defeat’ someone.
Desire to ‘Conquer’ something and not to ‘exploit’ something.
FEAR and DESIRE are two friendly evils that must be controlled by us. If they start controlling us, we start losing our goals, and eventually our life falls into their traps! Be conscious about when you fear and what you desire.
Have a happy day!

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Success' Catalyst

Image
Success Speaks. Failure writes the script! Your idea may not work; Your work may not give you perks; Your words may be absurd; Your story may remain unheard; But, still you can think! Still you can work! Still you can speak! Still you can write a story! Don’t just stop because you failed once; Don’t just stop because you failed twice; Don’t just stop because you failed the nth time; Start because you already tried it n times. Start because you can complete it! Start because you haven’t succeeded yet! Success has some eligibility criteria! You need to be strong enough to hold it! You need to be bold enough to showcase it! You need to be kind enough to share it! Failures can mold you to fill these criteria!!! Stop blaming others! You failed because you did a mistake? You failed because you lack something? You failed because you took wrong choices? You will succeed because you know the mistake! You will succeed because you know the need! You will succeed because you know the ri...
Read more

Being Alone

Image
What’s being ‘alone’ mean? It is a word which has many hidden meanings! You are surrounded by people but alone by heart; You hold dozens of emotions to throw, but no one to catch; You throw it in air, it kicks back to you! You long for people, but hardly anyone knows! It’s like standing under sun and feeling the darkness! When you’re alone, you can feel your heart beat! It says, you’re still alive; You are becoming strong; When ‘alone’, means just ‘alone’, it’s physical loneliness; The former is mental loneliness! Both affects but former has serious effects! Being alone triggers your brain to pop your past data! It brings out the most undesirable and in-erasable memories! One or many people walk in front of your eyes virtually! While they cross, they add some tears; Irony is only you know that they added it! Sometimes, being alone strengthens your mind! Sometimes, being alone affects your heart! It ...
Read more

A Virtual Map that you need!

Image
Design your Map Asap! There exists a strong connection between what we see in the physical world and what we don’t see in the inner soul. The destiny decided by the inner soul can be arrived via a path in the real world with the guidance from a virtual map. I'm talking about a map that contains your destination and the path to reach it, not physically but virtually. These paths cannot be found in any Digital Maps that we have at our finger tips. This Map I'm talking about is a virtual map.  The paths in this map has to be discovered by the one who wants to find his/her destiny.  That’s no one but you! Find your destiny, be sure about where you are going. Because, starting a journey without knowing where the destination is as useless as taking a photocopy of white sheet. You will remain the same. After finding the destiny, find the paths that lead you there.  These paths or routes are analogous to the ones we travel every day. This Map can give you a ...
Read more